Balancing Health and Business: Time Management, Sleep Optimization, and Mental Well-being Strategies
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Balancing Health and Business: Time Management, Sleep Optimization, and Mental Well-being Strategies

Join us as we explore the impacts of hurricanes on health and business. We discuss how busy professionals can prioritize health, emphasizing discipline over motivation for fitness. Discover time management strategies to enhance wellness and integrate health into business success. Learn how to secure early wins and client commitment by linking physical and mental well-being. We highlight the role of sleep in health and performance, offering tips for optimizing sleep and power naps. Connect with Matt and Dr. Alessi, and get a sneak peek of the next episode.

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Dr. Alessi Functional Health https://alessifunctionalhealth.com/

(0:00) Welcome and introductions (0:35) Hurricane experience and its effects on health, business (3:53) Prioritizing and managing health for busy professionals (6:08) Discipline vs. motivation in maintaining fitness (9:16) Time management strategies for health and wellness (11:26) Integrating long-term health into business success (14:20) Strategies for securing early wins and client commitment (25:47) Linking physical health with mental well-being (26:06) Sleep's role in health and daily performance (27:26) Techniques for optimizing sleep and power naps (29:13) Connecting with the hosts and podcast program (30:31) Outro and next episode teaser

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Welcome to the Full Fueled podcast.

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Welcome to the Full Fueled podcast.

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With your host, Matt Tack.

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With your host, Matt Tack.

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Who are you?

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I'm doctor Alfred Alessi.

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Doctor Alfred Alessi.

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Alright, Matt Thack.

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Thanks for being here with Full Fueled.

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How are you doing?

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Doing great.

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I'm doing great.

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After these hurricanes, doing a lot better.

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We're in Tampa Bay.

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Are you in oh my goodness, man.

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So you were right in the thick of it.

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Did you evacuate?

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Did you stay?

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What'd you do?

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No.

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We evacuated this one.

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The first one we didn't, and it got a little testy.

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So my wife, she definitely wanted to get out of this one.

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So we, we went to Orlando, felt safe there.

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We got through it virtually unscathed, but there's a lot of heavy destruction throughout,

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throughout the West Coast here.

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It's crazy.

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Yeah, man.

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I'm glad.

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I'm really glad that you you got out in time to I had a buddy who lives in Tampa as well, and

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he texted, and what's going well.

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I I didn't evacuate in time, so I'm staying.

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And it got real dicey for him.

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Luckily, he is doing okay too, but glad to hear you're back back home, I assume, and and trying

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to resume and re put things together.

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Yeah.

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Yeah.

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Back home and, yeah.

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We're we're putting things together as well as the business, you know, because they hit they

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hit small businesses pretty hard too, in terms of just shutting down.

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I mean, basically, you know, people aren't coming in.

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They're fixing up their homes, boarding up their homes, saying goodbye to things.

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So, but we are in back full full in the swing of things now.

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Man.

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Well, you know, and that's super relevant to our audience too because as therapists,

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especially ones who were probably affected by the hurricane, they're the same way.

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You know, when when clients aren't coming in, they're not making money.

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And so a lot of times these things can really put a hindrance on the business.

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So I'm excited to to talk to you.

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I'd love to just have you give an intro to our listeners of who you are, what you do, and, how

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you serve people.

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Yeah.

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So, we have Alessi Functional Health, which is a brick and mortar, functional wellness, where

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we pretty much do chiropractic, decompression, soft wave, so pretty much everything.

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We even put, some cold plunge and infrared saunas in there too for total body therapy.

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But then we also have a coaching platform for really 30 the guys 35 and up.

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We like guinea pigging ourselves first.

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So, we just handle from the full spectrum of things, getting blood work done, thing to just

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data and full body optimization, as well as diving into basically our 3 pillars, which are

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mindset, nutrition, and muscle.

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And so that's what we have going on right now, and, we're building out the clinic.

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Oh, like, as I told you, kind of preshow.

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We're looking to scale, through additional locations through acquisitions right now.

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So busy on the home front, kind of across the board.

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Yeah.

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That's awesome.

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I I'm curious on both sides of it, and I'm gonna pick your brain on both what you do for

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clients, but even on the business side, because it sounds I'm sure there's a lot of overlap and

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alignment with your business model.

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I know we've worked with a lot of therapy practices who have a similar mindset.

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They they acquire other practices, and that's how they extended their reach.

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So that's that's one really great way of growing and expanding.

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And also what you're talking, I mean, as a male over 35, when I was 37, I decided to prioritize

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my physical health and mental health and getting blood work.

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I never had worked out in my life, had never done any of it.

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And, you know, here I am.

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I'm 39 now and feel the best I've ever felt as a result of focusing on those three things.

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So talk to me as as people who are busy in their business, how important are those things?

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How do we even take that first step in prioritizing them?

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Yeah.

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That's you know, even for our docs.

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Right?

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So I handle the ops side of our business.

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And then even our docs, that's one of the things that we have for really as a

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nonnegotiable for everyone, that we bring on board even onto our team is really allocating

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the time, and putting that into your calendar.

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And so whether it's on lunch or in the morning, so we do you know, standard chiropractic hours

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are actually kinda funny, because they yeah.

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It's they're they're, like, kind of all over the place, and we're trying to actually draw

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that more in.

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But there's gotta be a separation of how you're investing into yourself and into your business

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and then your overall quality of life.

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So our docs actually work out kind of on their break, and they head to the gym and then

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they'll come back.

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That's just one thing that's been a really good cadence with, the docs and making sure that's a

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priority.

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Right?

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So 3 days a week, they're into the gym.

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They're working out.

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But, you know, I always go back is it's gotta be programmed into the calendar.

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So, you know, you can tell your priorities by looking at your calendar, and so you wanna just

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make sure you prioritize those.

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That's one thing.

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If we're gonna lead the charge in functional wellness and that total body health, Wanna make

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sure we're looking the part.

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We were just talking about this the other day in terms of, like, that that is our brand.

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Right?

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And as business owners, we wanna demonstrate that where, you know, we don't want somebody

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coming in and asking us, and then we look like we're, you know, 30, £35 overweight, not making

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really quality decisions about the longevity of our life.

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And so we wanna look the part.

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We wanna look that brand.

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And so it's really important.

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So we always talk about, obviously, nutrition, and how we optimize nutrition.

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But then also resistance training is a major component, to what we do, and we wanna hold

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ourselves to that standard as well.

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That's great.

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I completely agree, that you wanna live that model.

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And and it sounds like I would imagine, and you can tell me if I'm wrong, that looking that

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part having that the the physical side locked in and having all those things, it's probably

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doesn't come easy.

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It's not natural for for everyone.

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It takes work and it takes energy.

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Right?

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I mean, that's, you gotta put the time in and the energy to get to where you are.

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Yeah.

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For sure.

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You know, it's funny.

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You saying that is like, you know, when you work out consistently, people think that it's

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enjoyment, and to an extent, it is, but, like, you're inflicting, like, almost pain with

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resistance training.

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Like, it's difficult.

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Right?

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You're stepping into a layer of discomfort.

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And so my wife sends a thing I, like, love working out, and sometimes I'm crawling to the

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gym.

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I'm like, man, I gotta work out again.

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Like, I I gotta get it in.

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But, you know, it's those disciplines that I was sharing a story about this, that, you know,

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post hurricane, I really got into a funk.

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Like, it was a real funk.

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Like, you you're just fed negativity, constantly on the news.

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And, you know, it was a weird kind of thing because we live on the water, and I honestly we

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had to say goodbye to our house.

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Like, we potentially we thought we're gonna be 5 feet underwater.

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So, by the grace of god, it went further south, and we didn't get that much water.

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But, I would like in a real funk.

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And, somebody asked me about the difference between motivation and discipline.

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And really when you build those disciplinary habits, that's what creates the motivation.

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Right?

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And so the discipline really shortens the gap to when you're in those lulls.

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And, in I was like, alright.

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I need to get back to basics.

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I need to get back to the fundamentals of just, like, getting into the gym and prioritizing my

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health again.

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Because when you're in and out of hotels, for a period of a week, you know, you probably aren't

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eating the best, not getting the most efficient workouts.

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You're not in your routine, but that's the beauty of discipline.

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And then then comes the motivation.

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So, that was really the separator there.

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I was, like, thinking and processing through that.

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It's just getting back to the basics, getting out of the funk because that funk can truly

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extend if you don't hold yourself to the disciplines you need to.

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Yeah.

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100%.

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I I think that's great.

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And I think you're right.

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It's, you know, I think for me, I I my wife has also said, you know, oh, it's nice.

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You get an hour break at the gym or, you can step away.

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And, yeah, I enjoy aspects of it.

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Typically, I enjoy the way I feel after.

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If I could snap my fingers and be in shape and never have to step foot in the gym, sign me up.

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I would do it.

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So it's cause, you know, I do weightlifting and it's, Yeah.

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It's it's not as relaxing as it can seem.

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It's good for my mental health and my feeling, how I feel, but, it's not, I was talking to my

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therapist about it one time because as he was talking about, do you ever take time for

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yourself?

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I'm like, well, I go to the gym.

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And he's like, do you go to the gym because it's an obligation or because it's you want to

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be there?

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And I was like, well, it's because of I've committed to going 3 times a week and that's

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like, oh, well, I have to go today because, I have only been twice already.

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So, to that point, that discipline is is huge.

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And there's days where I'm feeling it and I'm motivated.

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And there's days where even just showing up there is is enough for me, and that's that's a

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win in itself.

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So as busy business owners, you you sounds like you guys have baked it into just your core

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values at your company.

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And so therapists who are listening with your team, that's probably something you could

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consider doing.

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But the owners, it's really prioritizing time.

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Is that right?

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You you get you have to make sure it's at the top

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of your list of things you wanna do.

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Yeah.

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Because, I mean, if we don't do it, we can't really truly be there for our people.

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We know that exactly what you said.

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It's like, it is a mental health thing.

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Right?

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If I feel it I I always have this motto as I look good, feel good, play good.

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Right?

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If I look good if I feel like I look good, you know, that I'm feeling probably good and I'm

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playing good.

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And the order the you know, our playground is our business a lot of times.

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And so I wanna make sure I'm coming there with the best attitude.

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And the the only way I can truly come there with the best attitude is really prioritizing

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that time, getting some quality work in the weight room that resist is training for me.

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Some people might be running, or another layer of activity.

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For me, it's that, we do have hobbies though too.

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You know, one thing you had mentioned, like, do you do this for your time?

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Like, I play basketball.

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That's one thing.

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Although I am feeling it.

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So I'm the same age as you, and I'm 39.

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And I was like, man, I've I've feel this a lot more, like, that I used to, but definitely

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enjoy playing the game.

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That's something that, I train for, and I kind of, like, let loose a little bit, and just hit

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my flow kind of outside of the work environment.

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Yeah.

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I I that's great.

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I think it's really prioritized.

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And I hear people tell me all the time, I just don't have time.

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I don't have time or I didn't have time to do x y or z or I wish I could focus on those things,

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but I'm busy with the business and I don't have time.

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And I think reframing that has been huge for me at least.

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And it's like, I am not making the time for that or I'm not prioritizing that right now,

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because truthfully, we all have the time for what's important to us.

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And, if you're choosing to see more clients or focus all your energy on the business or focus

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on family or whatever it is, then that's great.

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But that's a choice that we make versus being a victim to I don't have time to do things.

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I don't know if that's something you hear a lot as guys are coming into work with you guys up

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front.

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Is it is is time a big excuse, I'm I'm gonna say, for why they're not pursuing it or why

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they haven't pursued it in the past?

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Yeah.

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For sure.

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I mean, that you know, but my response to always that and that is, like, the rebuttal, is

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like but when you start prioritizing your health, like, that's when it's gonna be the

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firestorm.

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Right?

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The the absolute, like, shit show for lack of better words.

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Right?

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You're you're like, oh, now I need to figure it out.

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Like, that's when people is like, oh, now it now it's a fire drill, and I need to oh, yeah.

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I'm gonna get to the gym.

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Or it's come January, and you're like, man, I've let another year go by without actually

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taking care of my health.

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And so those are usually the things of, like, you know, when it's convenient.

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But to be honest with you, it's never gonna be convenient.

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The reality is, like, the gym or even getting old, like walking is never gonna be convenient.

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But would you rather potentially have health issues at 42, or would you have a really

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quality life going in well into your seventies?

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Right?

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So it's the long game that really counts, and that's what time.

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Right?

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If you're thinking about, like, I need to make more money because we work with a lot of

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business owners, that's always the big thing of, like, I'm gonna miss out.

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I always ask them, well, how much is enough enough?

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Right?

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Like, when is enough enough?

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And it can be the same thing with working out it, but it also can be the same thing with

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money.

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And you need to evaluate that.

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Right?

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Can I take time?

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Can I break loose?

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Can I really focus on, you know, longevity?

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Because I I do.

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Maybe you you wanna see your grandkids.

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Maybe maybe those are things you just haven't really thought through that.

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So it's a really good thing to really process through and and think through of, like, when is

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enough enough?

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And then how can I prioritize maybe a little bit of time to capture that for the purposes of

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longevity?

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Yeah.

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I heard somebody say recently, you know, your example of being 43.

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You're gonna be 43 no matter what.

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Are you how are you gonna be when you're 43?

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Are you gonna be in the same place you're at now?

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Whether it's for you know, we we help business owners with their finances is our big that's

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what we do.

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So it's are you gonna be 43 and still struggling or in a deeper hole?

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Are you gonna be 43 and further along?

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You know?

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And health wise, maybe you won't have washboard ads by 43, but are you gonna have are you gonna

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be a better shape than you would be if you didn't do it?

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And so it's coming regardless.

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How do we wanna be when that actually happens?

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Now you are selling, and I know you guys have some tangibles, but very similar to us.

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It's coaching and very similar to our listeners.

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It's therapy.

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And so we call it an intangible in the sense of it's not you're not handing them a product.

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It's not like they're paying you and you're like, alright.

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Here you go.

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Here's your washboard abs.

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We'll see you, later.

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How does that how is it growing a business where you're selling something that may not

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they're not getting a direct deliverable, if that makes sense.

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And then people have to work towards it.

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Yeah.

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Yes.

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It's a you know, that's a little hard when there's a layer of discomfort involved.

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You know, it's always getting people, like, the buy in and the buy in process early.

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One thing that we always do is we do a a detox.

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So, like, small wins early are really big.

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People like seeing wins early.

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And it's something that I've been doing on a quarterly basis.

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So I actually was talking about this in a previous podcast.

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I got it big into fasting.

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But one of the things that I saw was I was just losing, like, crazy amount of muscle mass

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during that time.

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And so I was looking between, you know, the from a scientific background, autophagy versus

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mTOR.

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I'm like, I'm gonna lean a little bit more into the mTOR side, in in terms of production so I

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can maintain muscle mass later, later on.

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I don't wanna be losing muscle mass at 39.

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And so, one of the things that, you know, we do, is just people haven't really experienced a

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level of, like, hunger.

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And so we'll either take them through a 7 or 14 day, like, detox period to get that small win

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right off the bat of, like, wow, I just dropped 5 or £10.

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Right?

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And so when people can get that kind of early momentum, and then be like, oh, I I think I can

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do this and then get them programming.

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So we had that built out for our guys, but we do all their programming for them.

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We plug that in so they can get an idea of what resistance training is and more of a guide.

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Because there's so many people.

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Yeah.

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That's a big thing too as far as, like, you go on a gym today, and everyone's sitting on the

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bench looking at their phone, for an hour.

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It's like, there was a there was a, reel that my buddy showed me, and there was this guy

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joking around with another guy, but he would, he would go up to people and he'd be like, hey.

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How many texts you got left?

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Thinking sets you

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got left.

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Yeah.

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And they're like, oh, just 2.

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Oh, really?

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Just 2?

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Can I get one of those?

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Like, he was, he was joking around, but, you know, going in with the attitude, I have a

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plan.

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I have a program.

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I'm gonna get through this, and then I'm gonna get out.

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So a lot of my workouts, you know, are 45 minutes, hour long.

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I'm in and out, hyper efficient, you know, hit my hypertrophy, and then I'm I'm good.

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So it's just, you know, getting over those hurdles early because it's usually a lot of

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guys that, knew what they were, when 22, 23.

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But a lot of them have this mentality that, you know, the best days are behind me, not ahead of

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me.

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But when the reality is, man, you could you could turn it around.

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Trust me.

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But you just need that belief in yourself.

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So it's really coaching through the belief in yourself that you can motivate them to the

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extent that it that it hits that tipping point as Macam glad Gladwell, pens.

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Mhmm.

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Yeah.

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You completely.

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It's, I I've heard people and myself included.

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That's one thing I told my my coach before I hired him was I was like, you know, I've I've

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just always been the somebody who doesn't grow muscle.

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Just genetically, I can't build muscle.

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And I learned quickly that that's not true.

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That's, probably was an excuse that kept me out of the gym forever.

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And we see we call it the journey of change is what we see in our clients.

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And I felt it whenever I was going through my own fitness journey.

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And it's, we see 3 phases.

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We've got the high when you first start, and it's like sacrifice and hard work and pain.

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It's almost fun.

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Like, who cares?

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This is great.

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And you see some maybe quick results.

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Then we typically see the dip.

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And this is where most people fall off when they're on their own.

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And it's when it stops being fun, it stops being new.

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The the newness of being at a gym is no longer cool.

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You're tired and you don't wanna go.

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And usually that's where they fall off.

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And that's where I would fall off whenever I would try and get in shape on my own.

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And then the people who push through that typically see what we call the stretch, which

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is it's now ingrained in your lifestyle.

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You're not always gonna feel like going, but like you were talking about that discipline

00:18:13
level of this is who I am.

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I'm somebody who goes to the gym 3 to 4 times a week.

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And it's, I know that I'm not gonna feel kinda complete until I've done that.

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Do you see something similar in your interest as you're working with the people?

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And to that credit, why people should be working with someone like you guys?

00:18:32
Yeah.

00:18:32
For sure.

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I call it the it's very similar.

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I call it the the grind, the growth, and the gold.

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The the first kind of phase is gonna be that grind phase.

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You might be in a little bit of a honeymoon period, but then it'll get to the grind.

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When you can get through that grind period, you hit the growth.

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And the growth really is is like the way you talk to yourself.

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You know?

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That's a I have one guy that I'm working with, and, he just he talks to to himself so

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pessimistically.

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And I said, hey.

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No.

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You gotta re change that into, like, no.

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I will or I am becoming, instead of, like, no.

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I can't do that.

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And, like, what are you teaching your kids when you say that too?

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Right?

00:19:10
I always try to live out my dream, and I want my kids to see me living out my dream so that

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they can pursue their dreams.

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I think that's really, really important.

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So the that aspect of, like, how we talk to ourselves, and really catching it before it

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goes too long because then that's really is what's gonna promote that level of growth,

00:19:29
which then on the other side of that, you're gonna hit the gold.

00:19:31
Right?

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The honey pots on the other side.

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And so that's just really important.

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And I think getting through that is, like, I think Ed Mylett said this one time.

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Usually, when people become overweight, they, want to attribute or see themselves as an

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overweight person instead of, like, no.

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I was actually I am a skinny person that just happened to gain weight.

00:19:53
You know?

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And I'm just gonna get back to my old self.

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So it's reframing that script and that story of what you tell yourself.

00:20:00
That's so good.

00:20:02
Man, that's cool.

00:20:02
Yeah.

00:20:03
That's that's really, really good.

00:20:04
I think that mindset piece is is huge and such a game changer.

00:20:10
I think so with with these business owners, and I that's your niche.

00:20:15
That's you work with a lot of them.

00:20:16
I don't know if that's your niche or not, but you work with a lot of business owners in their

00:20:19
fitness side.

00:20:20
We are big believers in prioritizing yourself as a business owner.

00:20:23
No one goes and starts their own therapy practice because they want to work long hours

00:20:28
and make no money and feel stressed and burnt out.

00:20:31
I think taking care of your body and taking care of all these things is super important

00:20:36
part of that.

00:20:37
You kind of alluded to us at least one piece, which is maybe scheduling it into your your

00:20:42
calendar.

00:20:42
But what are some of your tips for people?

00:20:45
Is it get up earlier and do it?

00:20:46
Is it ingrained into your work your work day?

00:20:48
How do you help people find that time or make that thing a priority in their schedules?

00:20:55
Yeah.

00:20:55
I mean, that's gonna come down to really you kind of putting it out there.

00:21:00
Like, hey.

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I'm gonna do it, because I I feel like I have the capacity on Monday, Wednesday, Friday.

00:21:06
So you said 3 days a week.

00:21:07
Right?

00:21:09
That you you can program that in.

00:21:11
And usually people have, like, if they look at their schedule, it's rather rhythmic.

00:21:17
Right?

00:21:17
Like, if if you truly look at it, hey.

00:21:19
I do a lot of the same things, and then I I I can find some small gaps.

00:21:24
And so one of the things for me is, like, you know, hey, cardio.

00:21:28
Well, I can do cardio in the morning.

00:21:30
And so, hey, what would be the best way?

00:21:33
Well, I like getting on the bike.

00:21:34
Hey, Pelotons are great.

00:21:36
It's 30 minutes hyper focused.

00:21:38
Hitting hills with Alex Toussaint is great.

00:21:41
Boom.

00:21:41
You're done.

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30 minutes.

00:21:43
And everyone has that, you know, that 30 minutes.

00:21:45
So, like, it programming it in.

00:21:46
So whether you're gonna do it in the morning or you're gonna be doing it in the afternoon, it's

00:21:50
like, where is the opening?

00:21:51
I like telling people, though, where is your controllable?

00:21:55
So you always look at need to look at it.

00:21:56
Like where's the controllable of time?

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Right.

00:21:59
Because with kids, you tend to lose a lot of control.

00:22:02
And so usually that comes in the afternoon.

00:22:05
So I would I typically tell people, like, don't try to program stuff in the afternoon because

00:22:11
that's really going to be hard and where your controllables are, are typically the time you

00:22:15
go to bed and the time you wake up and the time you wake up.

00:22:18
If it's 30 minutes earlier and you're putting on some boots to get on the Peloton or you're

00:22:23
doing some class or whatever it might be.

00:22:27
After a while there, when my kids were extremely young, I did kettlebells at home.

00:22:32
So I had to I had to, like, make use of time of whatnot.

00:22:36
You know?

00:22:36
So I I wasn't able to strength train at the gym just because my kids were, like, I had 3 under

00:22:41
5.

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And my wife, she would've killed me if I went away for an hour.

00:22:46
Right?

00:22:46
Now we're in a better better process of how we operate.

00:22:49
And so I do have the capacity to go to the gym now, but I also realize that some people don't.

00:22:54
And so then how do you do that?

00:22:56
You sometimes yeah.

00:22:57
Kettlebell is an amazing tool that you can get hyper efficient resistance training, at a at a

00:23:03
very fast rate, and they're relatively cheap.

00:23:05
Right?

00:23:05
$80, you can get all different sizes.

00:23:09
So to what you program in but I do I do tell people, like, in the mornings are always best

00:23:15
because, typically, that's gonna be the controllable.

00:23:17
They're always they're gonna be the hardest because mornings are always hard.

00:23:20
You're, like, a little froggy.

00:23:22
But at the same time, like, that's when discipline occurs.

00:23:25
Like, hey.

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This I've set this as a nonnegotiable.

00:23:28
I'm doing this every Monday, Wednesday, Friday, whether I like it or not.

00:23:32
Yeah.

00:23:32
I think that's great.

00:23:33
You're right.

00:23:34
You know, sleep, of course, especially in the moment, that, but that's the easiest time to

00:23:39
find where you can squeeze a little time, for me.

00:23:42
And it was also, I do mine at lunchtime, just based on our workday.

00:23:47
And typically when I get the most work done, is it first thing in the morning?

00:23:51
So I've done lunchtime, but basically, what I did was I have used to have an hour and a half

00:23:55
blocked on my calendar for lunch, and I just added an extra half hour.

00:23:58
So now I have 2 hours.

00:24:00
That's enough time to go to the gym and come home and eat before my next meeting.

00:24:04
And another thing that's helped me, and and you can tell me what this is whether this is a

00:24:08
healthy mindset or not, is, those days, maybe a meeting runs long, and I was supposed to go to

00:24:13
the gym.

00:24:14
And I'm like, I'll I'll only have time for maybe a 20 or 30 minute workout.

00:24:18
My mindset is some is better than none.

00:24:20
I'm like, okay.

00:24:20
I'm gonna go because it's easier for me to be like, well, you know, I missed it.

00:24:24
Sorry.

00:24:24
It's I'll just have to skip today versus I'm like, you know, I'm gonna go in at least for 20

00:24:29
or 30 minutes even if it's just I do 2 to 3 workouts and then, you know, exercises and then

00:24:34
I have to come back home.

00:24:36
That's a lot of times can for me, it's almost motivating to be like, alright.

00:24:40
The win today was that I still made it into the gym.

00:24:43
Those kind of small wins that you were talking about.

00:24:46
I couldn't agree more.

00:24:47
I do that all the time.

00:24:48
Like, my day will get hectic.

00:24:49
It it's funny because we have the exact same schedule.

00:24:52
I work out during lunch, now.

00:24:55
It's just better for me.

00:24:56
I'm able to capture that time.

00:24:58
I typically don't like eating something super heavy in the middle of the day, so I'm like,

00:25:01
this is a perfect time.

00:25:02
And then when meetings run late, similar today is, you know, just a quick 20, 30 minute.

00:25:09
And that's the beauty of, like, super sets.

00:25:10
Right?

00:25:11
I get in there.

00:25:12
I knock out some super sets, and then I'm out.

00:25:14
But, getting a 20 to 25 minute really hyper focused workout in is better than nothing.

00:25:21
You know?

00:25:21
It's a it's the compounding effect.

00:25:23
It's just like time.

00:25:24
It's just like money.

00:25:26
Yeah.

00:25:27
Great.

00:25:27
And and it sounds like even too, and maybe this is just what I might even need to add into my

00:25:32
repertoire is having a 20 to 30 minute workout just in my back pocket because I know those

00:25:37
days are gonna happen, and it's just something that's really intentional and focused.

00:25:41
Versus now, it's like, well, here's the workout I was gonna do.

00:25:44
I'm just gonna pick a few off of the list and, go with that.

00:25:47
But, man, this has been super, super helpful, Matt.

00:25:52
I think physical health, mental health, all these things are are tied together.

00:25:56
We didn't even get into sleep, I don't think.

00:25:58
So I know you guys help people talk about the importance of sleep and the value of sleep.

00:26:01
What are your thoughts on that and how it relates to everything we've been talking about?

00:26:06
I mean, sleep is, huge in terms of understanding, like, your body's rhythm on a

00:26:11
day to day.

00:26:12
I you know what, is wild for the past, week.

00:26:15
I've actually taken a 20 minute nap.

00:26:18
So I close my eyes in the middle of the day.

00:26:20
It's I don't sleep, but, like, I kinda have a subconscious meditative state, and it kind of,

00:26:26
like, hurls me into the second half of the day.

00:26:29
And it really gives me a lot of momentum.

00:26:32
I just have, like, a lot more energy.

00:26:34
My like, less way less stress too.

00:26:36
So, I do a bunch of different things, but I do have a bedtime.

00:26:40
I go to I go to bed before 10 o'clock every night, hands down.

00:26:44
It's kind of a nonnegotiable.

00:26:45
And then the other things, I was actually talking about this in a previous podcast, but,

00:26:49
like, one thing that I've done over the past 4 or 5 months is, I've actually put my phone into

00:26:55
the living room, and then I have, like, an alarm clock that wakes up to birds singing.

00:26:59
So it's a lot more alarm clock?

00:27:01
Can you even hear us anymore?

00:27:03
I know.

00:27:04
Oh, it's like, you know, I thought about it just like the negative energy that typically a

00:27:09
phone has once you hold it in your hands.

00:27:11
It's like I'm gonna be dealing with the rest of the day.

00:27:13
I don't want that the first thing that I touch is my phone, which naturally is just gonna take

00:27:18
away.

00:27:19
It's not gonna mainly give to me.

00:27:22
So but sleep and just the rhythm of sleep is so important.

00:27:26
We get really nerdy about it.

00:27:28
I, you know, I I highly recommend whoop bands or aura rings to just really understand the

00:27:32
cadence of stages 123, like, and then REM deep REM sleep and your slow wave sleep.

00:27:38
Like, just try to get data, because that is, like, you know, that's healing recovery

00:27:45
optimization that starts with what happens in the bed.

00:27:49
So, I I say always say preserve the bed for 2 things, sex and sleep.

00:27:54
That's it.

00:27:55
Man, I I sleep has been, like, on the forefront lately.

00:27:59
You know, I did the sleep study because I just I'm going, okay.

00:28:02
That's just the next thing I know I need to optimize.

00:28:04
I'm terrible about having a bedtime, and that's the no excuses.

00:28:08
That's just me not prioritizing it.

00:28:11
I tend to find other things I wanna do.

00:28:13
And I know the second I lay in bed my head, I'm gonna fall asleep immediately.

00:28:17
But I've been trying to learn more about how to just get better sleep and, you know, take in

00:28:21
different, you know, magnesiums and things to try and help that restful state.

00:28:25
But I know it it has a triple effect.

00:28:29
I know the days that I don't sleep well, I tend to consume more food.

00:28:33
I tend to, be more lethargic and maybe don't go to the gym.

00:28:36
And so man, it ties into so many things, and I'm not nearly as focused either.

00:28:41
So that's huge.

00:28:43
I really wanna learn more.

00:28:44
I'm I probably need to get one of those aura rings and just learn more about myself.

00:28:49
And another similarity, I take a 20 minute power nap most days.

00:28:53
Right I took one right before we got onto this call, just a little quick recharge on the

00:28:57
couch.

00:28:58
My wife has no idea how I can do it.

00:29:00
If she lays down, she'll be out for 3 hours.

00:29:03
But, she's like, how is that refreshing?

00:29:05
I'm like, I feel like a new person.

00:29:07
Like, I'm great.

00:29:10
That's hilarious.

00:29:11
Awesome.

00:29:11
Well, Matt, thank you so much.

00:29:13
Tell us how people can get in touch with you.

00:29:15
I know there's probably a lot of business owners out there listening and going, this is

00:29:18
they're ready to prioritize this.

00:29:21
How can they reach out to you?

00:29:22
What do you guys have?

00:29:23
Yeah.

00:29:23
Just tell us what they can do to get connected.

00:29:26
Yeah.

00:29:27
We have, you know, obviously, our podcast, we is, the full field podcast.

00:29:32
We, launched that last year, so that's been a lot of fun to do.

00:29:35
But we're on every syndication source.

00:29:37
So, you can check us out at Itunes, Spotify, or YouTube.

00:29:42
And then I'm on Instagram at human.optimizer, and then typically on Facebook is where I've

00:29:46
post to, Matthew Tack.

00:29:48
And then if you want to check out, our coaching program, it's at fitness.fullfuel.com.

00:29:53
We have a few programs that, if you're interested, you could, DM me or just click the

00:29:58
link, and, we'll make sure to get in contact with you.

00:30:00
But, those are the best ways.

00:30:03
Awesome.

00:30:03
We'll link all those in the show notes so people can find you and get connected.

00:30:07
I'm gonna be subscribed to your full field podcast because I can already tell it's

00:30:11
probably, exactly what I need to be listening to, while I'm at the gym.

00:30:15
I'll be listening to it while I'm working out.

00:30:16
That's the best time to that's that's the best time to learn and grow.

00:30:20
But, Matt, man, I appreciate it.

00:30:22
I I would love to have you back on some time because I know we barely scratched the surface

00:30:26
here, but, thank you for your time, and thanks for joining us.

00:30:29
I appreciate it, Craig.

00:30:30
Thanks so much.

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