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(0:00) Introduction and managing personal mood around a spouse (2:09) Matt Hallock's background and book discussion (5:29) Being the head of the relationship and self-worth in marriage (10:39) Balance of strength and gentleness; Role of service in marriage (16:26) Developing a warrior mindset (23:13) Matt Hallock's coaching program and future plans (26:42) Sponsor: Alessi Functional Health (26:58) Sponsor: Nutrition Solutions (27:20) Sponsor: Spread Oaks Farms (27:31) Recap, closing remarks, and call to action (27:49) Matt Tack on setting new norms and genetic potential (27:56) Quality ingredients and consistency in business and life (28:09) Final motivational message00:00:00
And so if my wife's mood is less than optimal on any given day, then I am going to be
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suffering because of it.
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And so I'm I'm always just timid around her instead of being attractive masculine myself
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and being like, okay.
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Well, you're in a bad mood.
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Oh, well.
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It's not gonna ruin my day.
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I still love you anyway.
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And, man, when when a guy can learn how to maintain his frame even when his wife is up and
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down, that's when he starts the process of rebuilding attraction with her.
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Welcome to the Full Field podcast.
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Welcome to the Full Field podcast.
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Welcome to the podcast
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with your host, Matt Tack.
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With your host, Matt Tack.
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Your host, Matt Tack.
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Who are you?
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I'm doctor Alfred Tack.
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Doctor Alfred Tack.
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Doctor Alfred Tack.
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They know by now.
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They know by now.
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They know
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by now.
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I'm gonna set what the new normal looks like in my life.
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You're not limited by your genetics.
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You have a superpower that is in the typical world.
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I do.
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You would be Only way we're gonna get the word out is with you.
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Live full fueled.
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You're at the own limits, baby.
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Let's go.
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Welcome everybody to the FullFuel podcast.
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We're without somebody, but we got a great guest on the podcast today.
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I got Matt Hollick, author, podcaster, and coach.
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He is an awesome, awesome guy.
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We're gonna dig in today.
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He wrote the book DNA of a Man.
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You gotta go check that out.
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He also is the podcast host of the Man Warrior King podcast, and he runs a coaching program
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that is just helping guys thrive at the highest level possible, in their marriage and the way
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they interpret and hear from the father on a daily basis.
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So welcome, Matt.
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Looking forward to getting in here.
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Yeah.
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Thanks, man.
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I appreciate it.
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Like, I love it that we're both Matts too, so we're just awesome.
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I know you're a good guy already because of that.
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But it's good to be here.
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I appreciate the invitation and reaching out to me originally.
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It's good, man.
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A lot of mats in the world.
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I actually don't know the data behind that, but there are quite a few mats.
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There are.
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Yeah.
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I know.
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So cool.
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We wanna dig in a little bit further.
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I am a massive, massive, book reader.
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So I wanna dig into your book a little bit, DNA of a Man, and then your story too.
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But, I'm assuming that's a culmination a little bit of what you you went through and then why
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you decide to write the book.
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But tell us a little bit about it.
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Yeah.
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Yeah.
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You're right.
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It is a culmination of of some pretty pretty rough years of life, and, I wrote it because it
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was like I had to I didn't really have a choice, internally.
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You know?
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And, like, I I had gone through the stuff that I had gone through, and I had all always, like,
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from the time I was young, I'd always wanted to do work with the Lord.
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Like, I wanted to originally, I wanted to, like, do ministry stuff, and then it kinda
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morphed.
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But, like, I've always wanted to basically proclaim a message.
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I've like, speaking, whatever it is, I wanted to do that.
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And so once I when my life went through what it went through, first of all, I lost sight of
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that.
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I didn't think I'd ever be able to do anything worthwhile.
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But once I made it through that, I was like, I could not find the help that I needed from a
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from Christian sources.
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I couldn't find it from books about marriage.
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I couldn't find it from, you know, sermons about being a man or anything like that.
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They never seem to scratch the itch that I had.
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They never seem to go deep enough or or just they they always seem to miss something.
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And so I was like, there has got to be other guys out there who need what I needed, but
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can't find it also.
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And so that's where the book came from.
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I was like, this there's a massive hole in church world that is not getting filled, and
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and people are not actually truly getting their marriages helped, getting their internal world
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in order and all that.
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So, yeah, this is where it came from, and it was I wouldn't wanna go back through what I
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did, but but at this point, I'm glad I have something to show for it now.
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Yeah.
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That I mean, that's so true.
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Right?
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No one would ever wanna go back through it, but it's part of your test is your testimony.
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Yeah.
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And it's the refining of you and what way it's what makes your story so cool.
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Yeah.
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And everybody's story right?
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But we very rarely take that time to reflect and then hardly anybody, right?
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You're probably in the 1% of the 1% that decides, hey, I'm gonna write this thing out.
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That might be true.
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Yeah.
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I heard from a pastor one time that the shortest pencil is longer than longest memory.
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And isn't that so true when you when you decide to write things out and how that can be passed
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on so Yeah.
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Kudos to you man that's awesome.
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Yeah.
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So let's dive into it a little bit more.
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You said something kind of pre show, that really hit home and resonated was this idea of
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like head not the tail.
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Right?
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Mhmm.
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And how we're, like, you know, and maybe today's society and we're losing that type of
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that that alpha in a man Mhmm.
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In a in in a godly context Mhmm.
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Of being the head not the tail And then almost, like, elevating the wife where you're walking
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on eggshells all the time.
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Right?
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And how that almost is unattractive to her.
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Yeah.
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So that dig into that a little bit more.
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Yeah.
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Yeah.
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So I know that I and now I've come to learn I'm not the only one.
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There's many men out there who who go through life as the tail and not the head.
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And that that's referring to for anybody who's not familiar, it's referring to Deuteronomy
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chapter 28 where god is listing out the blessings of obedience followed by the curses
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of disobedience.
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And he says, yeah.
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If you are my people and you're following hard after me and your heart is mine, then then my
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plan for you is that you would live as the head, which means I'm gonna be calling the
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shots.
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I'm gonna be looking around assessing the situation, deciding what will be and what won't
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be happening, and not the tail, which is just getting wagged around.
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And I have no say over my life.
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I have no say over how good or bad it turns out.
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I'm just a victim constantly.
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And I would say that victim is huge descriptor for what I would live as.
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And to to marry that with the eggshell thing, like, if a guy has this mentality that I am a
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victim in my life, I'm a victim.
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And Christians, this is a this is a rough thing for Christians because tend we tend to view God
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in such a way where, like, he's controlling everything that happens because he's God.
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So if there's something bad that's going on in my life, it might actually be his will.
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Hopefully, his will for me is that it would be good and pleasant, but sometimes that's not his
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will.
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And so we have this understanding that god is controlling everything.
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So, really, I'm a victim of god, and I'm a victim of whether he decides to bless me or
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not.
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And so then I'm a victim also of my own my own brokenness is my own weaknesses.
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I can't overcome those things.
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You show up in different realms of life and it's different social situations looking around
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wondering what people think of you, and now I'm a victim of other people's opinions rather than
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being on offense and be like, man, I'm here to be a blessing and those people are lucky to
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have me here.
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But then in your marriage, like, you become a victim of your wife walking on eggshells
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because I I don't have the confidence and self worth to be okay on my own.
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And so if my wife's mood is less than optimal on any given day, then I am going to be
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suffering because of it.
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And so I'm I'm always just timid around her instead of being attractive, masculine myself
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and being like, okay.
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Well, you're in a bad mood.
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Oh, well.
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It's not gonna ruin my day.
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I still love you anyway.
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And, man, when when a guy can learn how to maintain his frame even when his wife is up and
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down, that's when he starts the process of rebuilding attraction with her.
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And it's not always easy, but that it's like a requirement that so many of us don't get.
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That's so good.
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You know, this I went to a marriage retreat with my wife.
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It was something that, like, was on my radar that I wanted to do.
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I wanna invest in my marriage.
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And there was this, concept that we that was rolled out of when in the Bible, when God
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speaks that, that a man is ahead of the woman in today's world, right?
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That we have this like very feminist mentality of no, I gotta be equal.
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I gotta be, I gotta be majority or equal to, and in the biblical context, when you, like,
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kind of reframe that and really understand the context of it, and as we're walking through it,
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he was speaking purely in the physical tense of why the man needs to be the head.
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It's because I have the the authority and the physical presence to purely control and
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dominate my wife.
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Mhmm.
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And I if I wanted to, I could, but that's why we are with that's such a fragile subject
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within the context in the biblical realm.
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And if you're following the father is that I could I could physically destroy her.
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I have the power to physically destroy her.
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Most men do, but I can, I also have the power to elevate her?
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Yeah.
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And to make her feel worthy.
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Yeah.
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And that level of attractiveness is what you're talking about as far as whether or not she is
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in the right mental state, emotional state, I need to vibe with that, but I need to be above
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that and be able to elevate her, where she couldn't even, whereas like most men backed on,
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it's that time of the month again.
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She's going through something and pushing it off, but it's really being seeing it through
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the lens of what you're talking about.
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So I I you know, that was something that, that really hit with me just even a couple months
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ago of how how we have the power to destroy, but then we also have the power to lift up.
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Yeah.
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That's a huge thing.
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So, actually, that reminds me of a of a reel that my wife sent me with Jordan Peterson
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talking about how, like, a good man needs to be a dangerous man.
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And then because if he's not dangerous, then his goodness isn't actually a virtue.
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It's just weakness.
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Like, because he can't do anything mean to you anyway.
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So, you know, there's no value in virtue if you have the ability to hurt somebody.
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You know what I mean?
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Like, so in order to in order for the good that you have to matter, yeah, you do have to have
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that kind of strength and ability to do bad to somebody.
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And so the the idea of headship and and that ability to yeah.
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If I could if I wanted to hurt my wife, I could, but I'm not going to.
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If I can if I can step into that awareness of myself, it's it changes the game because here's
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the problem with a lot of Christian men is that they actually have a self perception that they
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suck, that they are just sinners saved by grace, and that's it.
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None they don't amount to much more.
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Their righteousness is is only as good as filthy rags.
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Like, I can't do anything of value.
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I can't do anything worthwhile.
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And so they they have this perception that there's nothing good in me or about me.
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And some Christian men don't have that so much, but a lot do, especially the ones that have
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been in church for years years years growing up with this thinking like, okay.
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I can't take any glory for anything because nothing good.
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I can do nothing good and all of that.
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And so they have that about, like, that mindset in their theology.
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And then when you go to get married, you realize there's gotta be something off here
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because that whole theology and mindset is causing a horribly dysfunctional marriage.
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And I end up looking towards my wife to be the validator of whether or not something actually
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is good in me instead of from a place of already knowing that I'm strong, already
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knowing that I'm worthy, already knowing that I have value, then I have emotional surplus to be
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able to give to her, to pour out for her to sacrifice for.
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And one of the one of the verses that just slammed me when I when I saw this for the first
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time, it was so eye opening.
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It's in John chapter 13.
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And, you know, people often quote for marriage in the Bible.
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They quote Ephesians 5, which talks about husbands love your wives the way Christ loved
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the church and gave himself up for her.
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And he, like, washes her with water by his word.
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So that whole marriage passage really has some some, like, flavors of this place in John,
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where in John chapter 13, it's where Jesus washes the disciples' feet.
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And and a lot of times people use, you know, husbands washing their wife's feet, like,
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somewhat metaphorically, sometimes it's even literal.
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And, my wife would never stand for it if I actually literally did that as an act of
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romance.
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Just saying.
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But she would be like, no.
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This is super awkward and it's not sexy.
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So let's just let's just keep it metaphorical.
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But people use that a lot.
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Like, husbands, you need to get low, serve your wife, wash your feet, stuff, stuff like that.
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So in this chapter of John 13, there's there's a verse that says, Jesus knew that he had come
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from the father and that he was returning back to the father, and he knew that all things had
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been given into his hands.
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And the next sentence says, so he got up from where he was seated, took off his outer cloak,
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wrapped a towel around his waist, and began to wash his disciples' feet.
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And I never saw this for most of my life.
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It was just a few years ago I realized that I was like, why would he say that this is a cause
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and effect?
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That Jesus knew his identity, his worth, his value.
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He knew how awesome he was basically.
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And that's why he chose to get down and serve his bride, his disciples, and wash their feet.
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And I think a lot of men have been trained or conditioned to try to serve, serve, serve,
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sacrifice, sacrifice, sacrifice.
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But they're doing it from a place of internal emptiness where I don't have any of my own
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value.
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So I'm washing feet without the precursor that Jesus had.
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And then so when I do that, it becomes needy.
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I'm actually if I'm not already filled up for myself, anything I do towards my wife is me
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looking to get from her my own validation.
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So what I think I'm doing to love her, it's actually selfish because I'm needing something
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from her.
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Mhmm.
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So there's this big gaping hole in so many guys who are trying to love their wives well and who
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just are missing it because of their own mental lack of well-being on the inside.
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That's good.
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There's a lot in that.
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How did you transitioning just a little bit here, you know.
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Yeah.
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I love the idea, what you were saying, A Good Man is a Dangerous Man by Jordan Peterson.
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And this idea of, like, building out the podcast and the coaching program, but man,
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warrior Yeah.
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King and diving into the warrior piece and the king piece of that all.
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Yeah.
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Yeah.
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Yeah.
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So as a warrior, you know, the scripture says in one of the Corinthians, it says that Jesus
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leads us always in triumph.
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It doesn't say some of the time.
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And so as a warrior, obviously, we wake up on any given day, and we have any number of
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enemies that could possibly step into our battlefield that day or that we faced
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yesterday, and we know they're gonna be there again today.
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And it's easy when you are lacking an awareness of the of the full of the full power of the
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gospel.
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It's easy to begin to settle for those enemies just being a part of life.
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And maybe those are my health.
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Maybe those are my marriage.
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Maybe those are my money.
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Maybe it's the state of my kids, and they're going off the track or whatever.
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Maybe it's whatever it is.
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That any of those enemies of life, we can tend to just begin to settle for them.
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And that is so stinking unbiblical.
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You look at you look at god taking his people into the promised land.
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Their problems came when they didn't obey god by getting rid of all the enemies.
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They made peace with their enemies, and we tend to do that on a daily basis in our life.
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We're like, you know what?
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This is just part of life.
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Like, we were also talking about off the air of of, guys just saying, well, I'm just getting
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older.
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So my body is just breaking down, which I'm making peace with that enemy of decay instead
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of being like, no.
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I will settle for nothing that is not part of heaven.
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Because Jesus said he told us that we were to pray like, god, your will be done on earth as
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it is in heaven.
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So let your kingdom come, and when it does, I want my life to look like it would if if heaven
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were already here.
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And but in order to get that, I have to be able to go to battle.
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I have to be able to fight for it.
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And so many of us have this thinking that, like I said earlier, like, whatever happens in my
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life, it might it must just necessarily be god's will.
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So I don't fight because I'm under this deception that God wants my life to have these
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enemies taking up residence with me.
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So I have to learn what it means to actually fight for the win.
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And that requires all kinds of stuff, but but it really there's there's a couple of central
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things that it requires.
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One is that I stop I stop letting my expectations for my life be determined by
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what's normal for people around me.
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And I stopped letting my expectations be determined by how I feel.
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And I have to anchor my mentality and my beliefs in what god actually says.
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So for me and my journey when I was going through health craziness that probably could
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have killed me, I had to intentionally not let my expectation for the future be shaped by the
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excruciating pain that I woke up every morning with.
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I had to be like, you know what?
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God says that he heals all of my diseases.
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He says that Jesus bore my sicknesses and carried my infirmities.
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So I refuse to make peace with this disease.
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You're an enemy.
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I will never accept you.
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And so it's like, it's this, I don't take no for an answer mentality.
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And from there, we have to we have to basically adopt a vigilance.
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The scripture says, be vigilant.
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Act like men.
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Always be watchful.
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Because those thoughts, man, the thoughts that we think are will either make us or break us.
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And so Warrior is 1st and foremost, I think he has to get his mindset right.
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That's so good.
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An imagery that I have of that is you and I'll never understand this about football.
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And I know it it varies with, are you a football fan?
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I am.
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I'm not, like, massive, but I'm a niners fan.
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So
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Niners fan.
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Yeah.
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I'm not I'm not a massive football fan by any but this is the analogy that kinda came across
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of, like, you know, when a, you know, a team's up and they might be close, in the whole game,
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they've been operating with a in a defensive scheme that worked.
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Right?
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Yeah.
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They might be throwing some blitzes outside on the lot.
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You know, they might be but very rarely do they play zone defense and play way back.
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But at the end of the game, they're playing not to lose the game instead of play to win the
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game.
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Yeah.
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And so they'll play this prevent coverage and they'll get really far back and they'll be
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like, ah, well maybe we might not lose this game.
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We might just have it, right?
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Yeah.
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And, that's a life, right?
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For a lot of people, it's like, we don't, we don't stay with the, you know, tricking them on
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their feet of staying with the bliss bliss packages every once in a while or or playing
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man to man.
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Yeah.
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Instead, we wanna give the zone, you know, coverage that's just, that's not like a balloon
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that we're we're giving up 15, 20 yards.
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Yeah.
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And that that is so much like that in life is that, oh, we're playing not to lose the game
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now.
00:22:07
So, like, what does that look like?
00:22:09
Totally.
00:22:09
I
00:22:10
That's such a great analogy, man.
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I I always, like, go back to, like, you play to win the game.
00:22:18
Right?
00:22:18
Yeah.
00:22:18
Like, let's play in your idea of, like, you play to win.
00:22:21
Right?
00:22:21
I'm not I'm not playing to lose.
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Yeah.
00:22:23
And I'm not playing to even almost potentially not lose.
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I'm playing to win.
00:22:28
Right.
00:22:29
And how are we winning in that capacity and seeing it through the lens, that biblical lens
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that you so eloquently just put it is just like that that's it.
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Don't don't go to that zone coverage.
00:22:40
Yeah.
00:22:40
You know, Is it still continually blitz?
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Still move forward, where, God's calling you and he has an intents and purposes in your
00:22:49
life.
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Totally.
00:22:50
It's so good.
00:22:51
So many so good for so many men to hear and and listen to that.
00:22:56
Where, where now can, you know, where do you wanna direct people from here?
00:23:01
Tell us a little bit, before we kinda sign off here about your coaching program Yeah.
00:23:06
To even a little bit about your podcast and where you expect that to go, in the near
00:23:10
future.
00:23:11
Yeah.
00:23:11
Just dive into that a little bit.
00:23:13
Yeah.
00:23:13
Thanks, man.
00:23:14
So, you know, everything kinda started with the book, The DNA of a Man.
00:23:18
So if anybody wants to get started with me, I would recommend starting there by grabbing the
00:23:26
book.
00:23:27
The I think it's up to almost, like, 10 copies sold now, and, I've had so many emails
00:23:35
or comments on Facebook or whatever from guys that are like, man, this book changed my life.
00:23:39
And I didn't expect it, but but that's how it's been.
00:23:43
So, that's where I would start, and you can you can find it at man warrior king.com/dna.
00:23:50
It's also on Amazon as well.
00:23:54
So that that book is gonna it's actually the first of a 3 part series.
00:23:58
I'm gonna I'm gonna be writing the DNA of a warrior and also the DNA of a king too.
00:24:04
But I would start with that.
00:24:06
On my website man warrior king.com, you'll find a lot of other things too.
00:24:10
You'll find coaching information.
00:24:12
I do 1 on 1 coaching with guys.
00:24:14
A lot of times they have read my book and they're like, okay, I really need more of this.
00:24:18
So I need to get in touch with Matt.
00:24:19
And so we will we will go through a process of mindset renewal because Romans 12 says, you get
00:24:28
transformed by renewing your mind.
00:24:29
So we'll go through that process and begin to eradicate stupid lies that we're believing and
00:24:35
begin to see, okay.
00:24:36
I've got to think according to how god thinks.
00:24:39
And we go from that into tapping into your desires that maybe you've watered down over the
00:24:44
years.
00:24:45
You've ignored them, pushed them out, whatever.
00:24:47
We wanna awaken these different desires for what you wanna see happen in your life.
00:24:51
And then we go into reviving your marriage if you're a married guy, which most of the guys
00:24:56
who work with me are.
00:24:57
But even if not, like, there's other stuff we can do.
00:24:59
But for the most part, it's like, yeah, my marriage has been really, really painful, and I
00:25:04
need some kind of help.
00:25:05
I haven't found it in the church.
00:25:06
I haven't found it from Christian books or whatever.
00:25:09
So we end up going into all of that and help you learn how to rebuild attraction in your
00:25:13
marriage.
00:25:14
So I I do that with 1 on 1 with guys.
00:25:16
Every now and then, a few times a year, I offer a group intensive where I take a group of guys
00:25:21
through that process as well.
00:25:23
But there's other courses and things that I have on my website too.
00:25:27
And, yeah, like you said, the podcast is another good starting place too for me.
00:25:32
So, the book and the podcast is the Man Warrior King podcast.
00:25:36
I'm up to almost 90 episodes now, and I the plan for that in the future is to is to keep
00:25:43
building it.
00:25:44
I plan to start getting some sponsors going and stuff and to really get the word out there
00:25:49
about it.
00:25:50
It's I have yet, I have not yet focused on double purposing it for YouTube, but I'm gonna
00:25:57
be building a YouTube presence there and building that out.
00:25:59
So eventually, you'll be able to find, the full built out YouTube channel as well.
00:26:05
So, go in big places.
00:26:08
I love it, man.
00:26:09
And then what are your social handles?
00:26:11
Yeah.
00:26:12
It's, on Instagram.
00:26:13
It's just man warrior king.
00:26:15
On x, it's man warrior king 1.
00:26:18
And then that's really the the 2 biggest places.
00:26:21
I'm on Facebook as well.
00:26:22
You can find me on man warrior king too.
00:26:25
But the those are it.
00:26:26
So yeah.
00:26:29
Thanks for coming on, man.
00:26:30
So we have Matt Hollick, as I said, author, podcaster, coach.
00:26:36
You gotta go check them out.
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Absolutely, man.
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