Unlocking Spiritual Fulfillment Through Positivity and Serving Others
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Unlocking Spiritual Fulfillment Through Positivity and Serving Others

null (0:00) Introduction to legacy, health, and energy centers (2:39) Mastering self-awareness for optimal health (3:20) Mindset's influence on health and longevity (7:04) Wealth vs. Health: Finding the Balance (9:10) Honoring the body and aging with purpose (11:28) Embracing control in life's journey (14:00) Mission and purpose as health cornerstones (17:08) Daily practices for a positive mindset (19:11) Combining aging gracefully with subconscious power (21:14) The transformative power of reading and service (26:09) Inspirational stories of giving and kindness (28:14) Cultivating positive energy for spiritual and mental well-being

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You could make 1 of dollars and you die when you're 60 because you're sick and your

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your body just deteriorated.

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You know, what was that word?

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Yeah.

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What was that word?

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What is your legacy and they never saw you made me, you know, because you're working, like and,

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again, to each their own man, people need to make that decision for themselves.

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But, like, for me, that's not the legacy I'm trying to leave behind at all.

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You know

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what?

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Where does, like, our mind energy, our spirit energy, our soul energy, where does it exist

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within the physical form of the body?

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You said between the head and the heart.

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That's just my opinion.

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Right?

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Like, that doesn't mean it's true.

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But, yeah.

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I think there's, you know, for me, there's a stretch of in my gut because you have actually,

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you know, I love how the fact that we're so scientific.

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And there's a stretch of, like, where in your gut that hits the vagus nerve, because we feel

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so much feeling and since nation within our gut that there is a direct vibration between your

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vagus nerve and your

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prefrontal cortex.

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Right.

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And, like, I think it right within your Vegas narrative, like, is where, like, your spirit

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soul energy is.

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Where that soul energy comes from.

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Yeah.

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Yeah.

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Like, it's and because it I mean, it's literally going I mean, it's going straight up.

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Right?

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It's going like through the kind of messaging through your heart.

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You then that feeling is produced, like, in the heart, which then, like, basically kicks out

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blood through all your capillaries into, like, various extremities of your body.

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Yeah.

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Right?

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Which then kicks it up to your head.

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So, like, your feeling is associated to every that's producing.

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Yeah.

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Like, along the way.

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And then a lot of what happens here through that vagus nerve is activating in your brain

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because your brain wants to, like, that's what's activating your mouth to move.

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Right.

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Any information load mean, there's so much going on in the brain in terms of, like, you

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know, long term memory bank sources within your, your hippocampus.

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Right?

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Your cerebral cortex is just like a freaking bundle of nerves waiting to accept all that

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information for the go biggest nerves at, right, then you have, like, your basal ganglia.

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Your basal ganglia is, like, the motor around within your limbic system to move.

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And then

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just go throughout your entire body, right, like the

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Throughout the entire body.

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Getting deeply, deeply spiritual.

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When you think about it, it's like an out of body experience.

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Yeah.

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To an extent, like, as I'm talking, I feel like I'm, like, hovering, like, right here, it's

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weird.

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Looking at yourself.

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Right.

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Like, looking

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back at yourself, but that's, like, such a good idea as far as, like, to slow down sometimes

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and understand how the body works.

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I'm reading this book right now by Garden.

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And he's like, I wanna be an expert on me.

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Like, it's all about becoming an expert on me as we become the expert on you.

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It's like, okay.

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Not only do I want to be an expert on me, but, like, I wanna know how my body works.

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Like, I wanna know how, like, just how I move, how I operate, how, like, the cadence, we're

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talking about sleep.

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We're talking about all these things in terms of, like, health.

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It's, like, how are you becoming an expert on you?

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Right.

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It's like important.

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Know where your soul is.

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Yeah.

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And everything we're talking about is I think, individualistic.

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Right?

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Like, people were so different.

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Right?

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You and I have a lot of same habits and a lot of the same goals and that kind of we're very

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different, right, like our physical makeup and everything.

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So your physical form and your physiology is very much an outward expression of your inner

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soul connection, man.

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Like, how do you think of yourself?

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Right?

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Like, you can think yourself sick.

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You can also think yourself out of disease.

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Yeah.

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There's the crazy studies that show people who have life ending, like, illnesses where

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they're, you know, they're basically deemed like, hey, you have a few months left.

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And if you change the the course of that.

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Right?

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These people who chose to, like, no.

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Forget that.

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I'm gonna survive this.

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I'm gonna figure it out, and they have such a positive attitude to their core.

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And then the disease goes away.

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Right?

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And the doctors are like, oh, we don't know how this happened.

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Right?

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There's like countless, like, cases like that.

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Yeah.

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No.

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It's a miracle.

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Oh, this is an anomaly.

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It's like, is it?

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Or is this how it's meant to be?

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Right?

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Like, but there's so much negative, like, oh, you're gonna die.

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Oh, you have this disease.

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You'll never get past this.

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Right?

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How many doctor say that kind of stuff.

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Yeah.

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Yeah.

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This is something you're gonna have forever.

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Living in a blue zone.

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It was that documentary that I was telling you about.

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Yeah.

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I think I had mentioned it.

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This guy goes all over the place.

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Right?

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He wanted to understand how people live to a 100.

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Are you past a 100 with optimal help.

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And there was this one guy.

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He was from Greece originally.

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He came over the United States, lived here for a number of years, but turned like think he was

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in his mid seventies, might even been in his sixties, married, and, they gave him they gave

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him a diagnosis that he had about 4 months to live.

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And so he's like, man, well, 5, 4 months to live, I wanna go back home to Greece.

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You know?

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I've been there.

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I haven't lived there in a long time.

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I just wanna I wanna go back home to Greece and just basically my my, like, essentially is

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death was to to go home in Greece.

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Go home to Greece and and just pass away there.

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So he goes home with him and his wife, and somehow this guy is a 100 years old now.

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He's lived 25 years.

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And they asked him.

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They're like, well, where did your cancer go?

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Like, where you got sick.

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You came here.

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Like, where did where did everything go?

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He's like, well, I guess I just forgot to die.

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That's awesome.

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That's just that's

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That's the best.

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Like And

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he gets it.

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So positive, probably, right, in that environment, and it was just so good for his

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soul, man.

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That was a 100%.

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He's like, you change the environment.

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There's a pastor.

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Mark Batterson, that always says change your place plus change of space equals change of

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perspective.

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Right?

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Yeah.

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And that was a powerful, but that's what actually resonated me with that guy was like,

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okay.

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You just gave me, like, I I, okay.

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I only got a limited amount

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of time.

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Yeah.

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And that's super negative.

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Like, when somebody says, bro, you got Yeah.

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You got 4 months to live.

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Good luck, man.

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We'll see you later.

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Like, we're not gonna do anything.

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Just have fun.

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Shove the gut, man.

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Yeah.

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So then you're like, okay.

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Well, I got 4 months to live.

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Have fun.

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Like, like, what what do I do?

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Like, How can I vote?

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Like, you just gave me the timeline.

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Right?

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Yeah.

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So then you you maybe have a few bucket lists.

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He said, look, I just wanna go back to Greece.

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Then he forgets that I.

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Right?

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There's enough, obviously, like, positive energy

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Right.

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That, like, going through that, scenario that, like, that it was

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change of place plus change of space equals change

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of perspective.

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Actually, no.

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No.

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No.

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Sorry.

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I got that wrong.

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It was change of pace.

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Pace.

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Yeah.

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It was change of pace.

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So his pace changed.

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Like, he was living in the United States.

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It was it was, like, busy.

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Yeah.

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And then he changed his place, got changed to perspective

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Yeah.

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And his body healed.

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Like, all all that inflammation was obviously taken out of his body, and he's he still lives.

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He's freaking a 102.

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Yeah.

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And I think a lot of those blue zone things that they are showing is, like, so much.

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Like, yeah, their diet's probably healthier, right, than, like, the modern American diet,

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but as so much of that is the community and that positive just, like, good, like, energy

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that these people are absorbing all day long.

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Right?

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And Yeah.

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Their entire life.

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Yeah.

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That that's why they live to be over a 100.

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Dude, honestly, over a 100.

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That's why I freaking do this, man.

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Thursdays are fun, but it's just, like, just love like, chatting about, like, positive

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things.

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Like, you know, what we're producing in terms of content Yeah.

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Is like, yeah, we, like, we all wanna be healthier.

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Like, is the pinnacle.

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Like, you you can make the point is to make a lot of money, right?

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You wanna make a lot of money, but, like, you also wanna make a lot of money and be most

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optimal and healthy you.

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Yeah.

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Right.

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And it's also, like, like, change the perspective on on the money thing.

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Like, why make a lot of money?

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So you have a bunch of cool stuff Yeah.

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For me, no.

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Like, that's not the goal.

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Like, my goal is so that I can, like, impact.

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Right?

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Like, I would love to be able to educate travel and share, you know, the knowledge that we have

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and and what we're doing our mission.

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And if money allows me to do that, that's awesome.

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Right?

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You know

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what I mean?

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But, like, I don't my car runs great.

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I don't need a new car.

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Yeah.

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100%.

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We talked about that the other day.

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Yeah.

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Yeah.

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It's like my car, like, everything that I have is is cool.

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Like, my life is my life is enough.

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More than enough.

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I'm blessed beyond what I deserve.

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You know what I mean?

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Dude.

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But I'm into that.

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So, yeah, it's like, what are you gonna do with that Oh, man, this is, yeah, this is getting

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deep, but I like you.

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A lot of people need to, like, really reality check themselves on that.

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Right?

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Because it's like, man, you can make 1 of 1 of dollars.

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You die when you're 60.

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Because you're sick and your your body just deteriorated, then, like, what was that worth,

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man?

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What was that worth?

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What is your legacy now?

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Like, your family, they never saw you maybe, you know, because you're working, like, And,

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again, to each their own, man, people need to make that decision for themselves, but, like,

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for me, that's not the legacy I'm trying to leave behind at all.

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No way.

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I think we talked about this, man, the generational health that's that's what I'm

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trying to leave.

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Right?

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Like Yeah.

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Wealth is great and, like, leave your family set up and supported so that they can, you

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know, be be safe and provided for, but also I want my kids to grow up as as health as like a

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foundation.

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Mhmm.

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And then their kids will grow up with a a a higher floor.

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Like, no, we set ourselves to this standard, and then their kids are hired for.

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Right?

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So, like, eventually down the line, like, the generation will be or the, the legacy will be

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that, like, we are just like, healthy people.

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Yeah.

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Like, we just have generational health.

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Yeah.

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And, you know, that that's ultimately the goal because health is wealth, man.

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I say that all the time.

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Yeah.

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Health is wealth.

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I mean, and and taking it back to the spiritual tense.

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Right?

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And, like, 1st Corinthians, the 1617 is, like, our body is a temp Right.

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And how are we maintaining that temple?

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Like, this is just a shell.

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It's a borrowed shell that we have right now.

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It's going to age.

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And I was thinking about this too.

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It's like, the reality at which we are going to age.

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Like, we're both pretty young right now.

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We're vibrant.

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We can talk.

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Like, but then it becomes, like, just because we're going to age, what are we doing to list

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still live beyond limits no matter how we're aging?

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So this

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whole, like, anti aging, the

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reality is we're going to age.

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Like, there's no anti anything.

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You are going to age.

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Right?

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But there is a difference between your aging gracefully.

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That aging component of like, no.

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I'm gonna actually make the right decision now and create a, like, solid discipline so that I

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can potentially live beyond limits when I'm at 60.

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Yeah.

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And then there's some guy, you know, you're the one they're looking at.

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They're like,

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what's he doing?

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What is this guy doing?

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Like, I've just always done this.

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Yeah.

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Yeah.

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I've just thought, yeah, I've always done this.

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And I, yeah, I think of this too as you were saying that was I had to really put in when I

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when I really dug deep and was like, alright.

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What do I want?

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Like, yeah, do I do I wanna make a lot of money?

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Yeah.

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So hard.

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Like, I do.

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I wanna do really, really well on my businesses.

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And then I also yeah, what what is that for?

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And I think you make a really good point is, like, another thing that I wanna do is that,

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like, I don't wanna leave much behind.

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Like, the point is actually from my standpoint is to make an impact and then utilize that

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money to further further this mission

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Yeah.

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Of living life full field beyond limits.

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Right.

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And with the intention of expanding number 1, the kingdom

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Yeah.

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Expanding everyone's mental, physical, spiritual output on a on a day to day basis.

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And we can utilize that as a platform, right, to to facilitate that.

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That's what I wanna do, but I also don't wanna forget, and Greg Harding goes into this book.

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Book's really good, but, of, like, controlling the controllables.

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And the measurables are not always to, in my eye, right now, and I know in your eyes too,

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of, like, I'm not trying to, like, impact the world so that my family, it suffers.

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Right?

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And I wanna make sure I'm, like, that example.

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Yeah.

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Especially when my girls are young because I can form their their mind and their brain.

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Because my definition of success at the end of the day, I'm getting into my sixties seventies.

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I'm jacked.

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I'm like freaking running around with my grandchildren.

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I'm doing like, I like, that's that's a goal, right, but is to have my kids to have that same

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mentality in that mindset

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Right.

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Of what would I what I taught them.

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Like, that is the most important thing because if I did all this other stuff, right, impacted

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all these other people, but then I didn't control what would the controllable was.

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Like, what good was it?

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The controllable was, like, god, like, said, dude, I'm blessing you with this Right.

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To bless others, but, like, that's your controllable.

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Now.

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Yeah.

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And so my controllable was, like, my wife, my kids, like, control the controllable is, Matt.

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Like, it's they're they're young, you're still relatively young in your marriage, like 10

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years.

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I don't think is is too too old.

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And so how am I controlling the controls to maintain and grow and blossom that and nurture

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that?

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Then at the same time, still making an impact And this is our platform right now.

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We created this platform.

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Like, we talked about it.

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Yeah.

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God downloaded you.

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Dude, we need to call it full fueled, and we need to make sure that others live beyond

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limits.

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And

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that's what we're doing right now.

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Yeah.

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But then we're also making sure behind the scenes, we're holding each other accountable

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to

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control the controls.

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Yeah.

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So I think that was important to share.

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Yeah, man.

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And, you know, a lot of that is is I think about, like, growing up, like, my mom was

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always, leave

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the room cleaner than when you

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got in or, like, leave the place the way it was or, like, you know, leave it a little bit

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better.

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Like, when you go to someone else's house, like, you don't just go to your friend's house

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trash the place and then, like, leave.

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It's like, no.

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Like, like, leave it better.

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And, like, what are we doing to leave the world better or, like, leave an impact everywhere we

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go, bro.

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Like, even when you walk into a a, like, a public to go grab some food or, like, you go

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wherever you go, like, are you leaving an impact?

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And and I know this is getting a little bit, like, people are like, oh, everywhere.

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Like, it's like you can, man.

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Like, did you smile at someone?

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Or did you walk through looking like just this grumpy, like, just a lousy person.

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And then now now maybe that negative energy is, like, onto that person.

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And they're like, damn, like, I I my life is kinda not great too.

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And then, or did you smile at him and say, hey.

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Like, are you.

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You know?

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And, like, maybe that little bit just, like, can kinda shift them into a positive state,

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then they go home.

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They have a better interaction with their family.

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Right?

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And it's like that that is vibration.

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Right?

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If you think about it, like, our vibrations can spread through how we treat people, how we are,

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like, just in general, like, like, how you are.

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And, and and, you know, we talk about, like, people talk about, like, mission statements

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and, like, what's your what's your mission, right, or, like, what are you doing?

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And I think a lot of it is, you know, our our our co friend, or, friend in common, Jeremy,

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like, talks about, like, the intersection between what's your passion, your purpose, and

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then, like, the gifts that you naturally have, like, these things that are just innate to you

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and, like, where the intersection of that is, that's your mission.

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Right?

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And, like, how I think we definitely are gonna use that in our optimizers program for whoever,

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you know, is involved is going to have their own mission statement, and that's why they're

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doing what they're doing.

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Right?

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Obviously, the programs to get people healthy, get them to be optimized living, you know,

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their best life, but, like, why?

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Yeah.

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Why?

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What does it matter if you don't have a why?

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Yeah.

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So, like, that's a huge part of it.

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Right?

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Yeah.

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And that's, I think the term purpose gets, like, overused.

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But it's so it's so important to me.

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Yeah.

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Use, I mean, overused, but do you ever want to lay your head down at night and think, like, is

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this is this it?

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Like, I had a friend coming to me the other day, and he was like, man, I've gotten to the

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point pretty successful guy runs a business, and he, like, what's been going through his

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head, got to bless him with children and an amazing wife.

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And he's like, he's like questioning.

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He's like, is this it?

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Christian guy.

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Right.

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Is this it?

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Right?

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And if, again, if you weren't setting the baseline and know where you're heading off,

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like, where Paul says in, 1st Corinthians, like, we're constantly renewing our mind.

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Right.

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That level of renewing your mind is coming to the basis of gratitude that says, wow.

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Like, this this is it.

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This is awesome.

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Right?

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And tomorrow's gonna even be better.

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There's a speaker too.

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I don't know if you ever seen him.

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His name is Nick.

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I think he's internationally might be Australian, but he was born essentially without

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limbs.

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So he has, like, really short hands and, really short feet.

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And so and the torso, like, he's, like, a fully full torso, full head.

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I know who you're talking about.

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But, like, he was not born with, like, like, the lens, just like his hand comes out.

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He's in international speaker now.

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One of the things that, like

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Like, I had every excuse to be, like, like, miserable and you know what I mean?

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Yeah.

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The world would have given him every chance to be just pity party miserable, do nothing.

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I hate my life.

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And which he was.

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At one point, he was.

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Yeah.

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And people would have been like, okay.

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Like, we get it.

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You know?

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And they

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would have just accepted that.

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And he chose not to.

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Freaking huge.

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He chose not to.

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He chose to redirect, right, of, like, the mindset.

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And now he's impacting millions because if you're like, look at it and you're Dude, if I

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can't be grateful?

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Wow.

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Yeah.

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Like, if I can't be grateful and that guy can, like, shame on me.

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Right?

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Yeah.

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Of, like, the direction of the narrative of which I'm pushing forward my life.

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Like, my head wants to come back to, like, every day.

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Yeah.

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Like, it comes back to, man, this is this is hard parent, 3 girls, like, be a husband, be an

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entrepreneur, like, life's hard.

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Like, I go to bed, and I'm like, smash.

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Like, I'm go, man, I'm tired today.

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Yeah.

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Like, I got I got everything today.

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Like, but But it's beautiful.

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It's beautiful, man.

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Like, so grateful.

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Like, there's that's why I love the mornings as so much joy in the morning of, like, waking up

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is, like, gonna be a beautiful day.

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And I was even talking to my wife this morning about, like, something that's going on in our

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personal life right now.

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And that was even a thing.

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It's like, we had to, like, we had to control narrative at which which our tongue was

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expressing

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Yeah.

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And say, hey.

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Come back home.

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Like, actually, today's a great day to be a lot.

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Like, no matter what.

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Yeah.

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Like, everything going on.

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Like, it's tough to see what's going on even in Israel and what's going on.

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Abroad and and and many other countries, right, where there's a lot of friction and hostility,

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but, like, it is still an amazing day to be alive.

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We're gifted it this day.

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Yeah.

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And so how are we utilizing it?

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That's right.

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Most that we possibly

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Yeah.

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And so much of that, man, is, like, how are we, like, helping our fellow, like, people.

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You know what I mean?

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Like like others, like like you said, that guy could have internalized his entire situation

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and been, you know, so focused on me.

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Oh, like and even when he got, like, changed his mindset, it could have been all about him,

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but he's making it all about others.

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Like, how can he help others?

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Right?

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And, like, I think that's what it is, man.

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Like, obviously, that's our mission too, just to help as many people as we can to, you know,

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through through, like, what we've experienced and, you know, how we've seen the the positive

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impacts of being healthy, being, you know, fit the proper nutrition on our life, how that's

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impacted us positively.

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Like, how do we help others do that?

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Right?

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Yeah.

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For sure.

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And that's the goal, man.

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It's all about other people.

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You gotta be in a servant.

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You know?

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Yeah.

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And aging gracefully.

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That's right.

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I think it's it's a really it's a mindset.

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It's really what it comes back down to.

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And it has to be, like, you have to be conscious every day of that mindset, man.

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Every day.

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Because you will get off.

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You will get distracted.

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You will get shifted.

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Right?

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And so, like, there's a book.

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It's called, the the power of the subconscious mind.

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Oh, yeah.

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Freaking awesome book.

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Damn.

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It is dense, dude.

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It is like I don't know why they printed in small text too.

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So but, like, every page, I had to read, like, three times because I'm like, that was so much

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to digest that, like, it took me, like, a month to read this whole book.

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Like, normally, I read books pretty quick.

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Like, I got a speed read, but, like, you couldn't this one.

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But the concept is, like, if you tell yourself every single day, subconsciously, like, damn,

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ugly, Tim.

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I'm, like, fat.

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I'm kind of a loser.

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Like, I I suck at this.

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I can't do this.

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Even if you say it out loud, people are like, oh, I suck.

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Like, oh, suck.

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Your body internalizes that as truth.

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Mhmm.

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Right?

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And so, like, you're consciously saying something that your subconscious is listening

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to.

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Flip that now.

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You can use your conscious thoughts conscious words, statements, like affirmations to train

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your subconscious mind to believe that now.

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Right?

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You wake up every morning.

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You're like, dude, I'm I'm I'm loved.

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I am happy.

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Right?

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Like, I have a beautiful family.

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Like, I am doing things.

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Like, I am helping others.

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Right?

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Like, you start to come hurt that.

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And your energy starts to increase.

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Like, you start to be more productive.

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You start to just shift that internal narrative that you think about yourself.

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It's massively powerful.

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Like, some people think affirmations are kinda cheesy and corny.

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Do do just do it.

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Yeah.

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Try it.

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And and do it for same things like we always talk about.

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Like, set it and make sure it's a thing.

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Do every morning.

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Yeah.

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And it will change your life.

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Yeah.

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What's cool about you even saying that is, like, a super dense book.

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Right?

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You can read.

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I I read this book by Stephen Hawkins, power versus force.

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And so you can read the entire thing, which I the power of the subconscious mind is a

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phenomenal book.

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Like, super dense.

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There's so many of these books, which I love reading.

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I think it, like, creates you you need to read.

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You need to read every

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day.

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You have to.

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But the one thing that creates, like, the narrative, like, if you choose to read and

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choose to obviously read the right stuff, there's a separation between, like, fictional

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and nonfiction.

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But, like

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Right.

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Both.

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You know?

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Yeah.

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I tend to, like, lean towards the non fiction.

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And then I add in some of the fiction.

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The fiction books that I get from my kids are reading.

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My kids bucks.

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Like, little critter.

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Yeah.

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Nice.

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Yeah.

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It's fun.

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Good one.

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But, anyways, it's it's good and healthy for them.

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And, like, as as Genevieve, she's the reading right now, but this is what I was trying to get

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to is when you are in any state of mind, helping others is always best.

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Yep.

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Like, just helping other people.

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And so, like, when you help people, like, that's the narrative.

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Like, that's that's what that's life.

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Like, any any at any point, right,

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just

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help people.

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Yeah.

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Like, if you're in a depressed state of mind, don't even think about it.

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Just go help somebody.

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And That's right.

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And it might be what you were saying earlier.

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Yeah.

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Like, a smile.

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They To.

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Like, a smile.

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Like, there was For

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a compliment.

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Right?

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Like, oh, that's really cool outfit you have on me.

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Yeah.

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There was a this is not to rush my shoulders or or to lift me up, but there was a really,

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really cool scenario that happened the other day.

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And I was like, man, god, thank you for letting that happen.

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Thank

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you for letting me ask that question.

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So I was getting flowers for my wife for her birthday.

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And so I walk into the flower shop, and I was like, for some reason, I was gonna go to

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Publix, but I'm like, yeah, I know there's that flower shop on Florida.

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It's like a small business.

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I wanna I wanna I wanna go there.

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I feel like

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Right.

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I I've been there before.

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I'll go there.

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I didn't know if she'd be open because it was, like, 8:45.

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So I had a quick meeting and then got in there around 9:10, and the door was open.

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So I go in there and start talking to her.

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And, then I ask her, you know, I'm like, hey.

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How you doing today?

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You know, she said, good.

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Good.

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And, you know, the topical conversation that, you know, a lot of us have.

00:23:04
Yeah.

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Yeah.

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I was

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like, how how's business going?

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You know?

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And she responds to me And she goes, she goes good.

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She's good.

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And she could've left it at that.

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And which I feel like a lot of people too.

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Yeah.

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But then she went on.

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And she got super vulnerable with me, and business wasn't going that good.

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Yeah.

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And I was like, man.

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And so I was just sitting there listening to her.

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She's like, you

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know, I don't know if

00:23:26
I'm gonna have to get a job.

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I don't know if, like, you know, just things have been really crazy.

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The economy and, and I've experienced that in my business.

00:23:35
Right?

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And so you?

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I'm like, shoot.

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Yeah.

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Like, I I get it.

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I understand where you're coming from.

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Yeah.

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Things are really, really hard.

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And then she's just saying, like, you know, it's been super tight.

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Like, man.

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Yeah.

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Yeah.

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And so I'm like, I I appreciate it though.

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Vulnerability, which, like, there's many times.

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I'm not gonna lie.

00:23:53
I'm like, dude, she's oversharing.

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Yeah.

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You know what I mean?

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Like, yeah.

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Like, feel like I'm a customer.

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She's oversharing.

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Come on.

00:24:00
She's oversharing compared to normal, but, like, I think everyone should share more.

00:24:04
Right?

00:24:04
Like, it's it's it's healthy, man.

00:24:06
Like It's

00:24:06
healthy.

00:24:06
It's used to being transparent.

00:24:08
So I was like, man, I was like, this is I'm I I, like, I appreciate it.

00:24:12
And so, like, Tim Segal was talking about it when I was at that conference last weekend.

00:24:17
We had met with.

00:24:18
So it just a small group of kingdom based entrepreneurs.

00:24:21
It was really good, but, like Yeah.

00:24:23
The god pricked, like, the god pricked your heart.

00:24:26
And so, like, I asked, like, god pricked your heart.

00:24:28
Like, what are you asking me?

00:24:29
Like, pricked my heart.

00:24:31
And so he so, like, he's like, well, help her.

00:24:35
So, like, what is was help me.

00:24:38
And so I was like, you know, the classic thing is like, can, you know, can I pray over your

00:24:42
business?

00:24:42
It's something I easily can go because I, like, I

00:24:45
Yeah.

00:24:45
Discomfort and prayer.

00:24:46
Like, I feel like I compare with everyone.

00:24:47
Yeah.

00:24:48
Yeah.

00:24:48
She had asked me right before I went in.

00:24:51
Oh, she's like, what's your or whatever.

00:24:52
And I was like, you know, like, I don't know, like, fifty bucks.

00:24:55
Like, fifty bucks for the flower sounds reasonable.

00:24:57
Right?

00:24:58
And so she's putting these flowers together.

00:25:00
And So then, she gets she gets, like, the flower's all done.

00:25:05
She's still chatting with me a little bit, and she's like, oh, okay.

00:25:08
This is gonna be 53 bucks.

00:25:09
I was like, again, this is not to, like, overplay the story, but, like, I just I, like,

00:25:15
it was the god perk.

00:25:16
I was like, charge me a 150 bucks.

00:25:19
And so she's like, really?

00:25:21
And I

00:25:21
was like, yeah.

00:25:21
Just charge me a 150 bucks.

00:25:23
Yeah.

00:25:23
And so she, like, charged me a 150 bucks.

00:25:26
And, then I was like, you know, can I can I perver your business too?

00:25:31
Cause I wanna, like, make sure I leave you, like, in abundant.

00:25:34
Right.

00:25:34
And so I got to pray over a business.

00:25:37
I'm gonna freaking cry

00:25:38
right now.

00:25:38
It is, like, pretty intense.

00:25:40
Yeah.

00:25:40
So it's cool.

00:25:42
So it was she'd rung me up.

00:25:45
We prayed.

00:25:46
It was just, like, quick prayer or whatever.

00:25:47
She asked me, like, about church.

00:25:48
I was like, you really need to attend that is a really cool church and I recall a radiant

00:25:52
church.

00:25:53
She's like, I was I'm moving to, South Tampa, and I'm I was thinking about I was like, just

00:25:57
do it.

00:25:58
You know, I think it would be a great connection.

00:25:59
Point for you.

00:26:00
But this is the this is the thing.

00:26:01
This is where, like, I wanna lead to in terms of, like, a mindset.

00:26:04
Right?

00:26:05
It was it was on it was, like, uncomfortable for me.

00:26:09
Do you wanna spend, like, another, like, 150 bucks out of, like, flowers?

00:26:13
No.

00:26:13
Don't don't really wanna spend a 150 bucks on flowers that day.

00:26:16
Yeah.

00:26:17
Did I really want to, like, you know, prairie.

00:26:20
Yeah.

00:26:20
I I think it got you know, that was, like, the those are the god pricks.

00:26:23
This is the reality.

00:26:25
The energy at which I imposed in that moment that god called me into was that direct energy

00:26:30
that potentially could be the correlation of that woman's mindset, being coming, man, This

00:26:35
is a super hard time in life.

00:26:38
Life sucks.

00:26:38
I'm gonna have to get a job this, that, and the other.

00:26:41
2, potentially, dude, he just prayed over my business.

00:26:44
I'm gonna go out there and make shit happen.

00:26:46
Let's go.

00:26:46
Yeah.

00:26:47
Let's go.

00:26:48
Yeah.

00:26:48
Let's go.

00:26:49
He

00:26:49
just gave me a 150 bucks a 100 extra dollars.

00:26:51
Let's make shit

00:26:52
happen today.

00:26:53
That was pure energy, positive energy that you, like, transferred to her man essentially.

00:26:57
Right?

00:26:58
Like

00:26:58
Yeah.

00:26:59
I mean, it was It was god, like, pricking the god freak.

00:27:01
Right?

00:27:01
That's what I love about that.

00:27:02
Yeah.

00:27:03
Yeah.

00:27:03
But, you know, I just had to be obedient to it, but, like, I'm like, dude, go get Let's go get

00:27:09
it now.

00:27:09
Just give her

00:27:10
a damn.

00:27:10
You'll get it.

00:27:10
You know?

00:27:12
But, like, that's, I think, what we're trying to like, that that's the culmination of stuff

00:27:16
that can happen

00:27:17
right.

00:27:17
I was like, let's let's go out there and get it.

00:27:19
Yeah.

00:27:19
Let's get it.

00:27:19
You know?

00:27:20
It's only positive when you give to others, man.

00:27:22
It's only positive.

00:27:23
And it's like, what was the hun what was the extra hundred to you, like, like, your kids are

00:27:27
still gonna eat.

00:27:28
Right?

00:27:28
Like, you still got your house.

00:27:29
You're

00:27:29
gonna be

00:27:30
a cat.

00:27:30
Exactly.

00:27:30
To her, that was a big deal.

00:27:31
Right?

00:27:31
So it's, like, like, how could we, like, like, impact others like that all day all the time.

00:27:36
Right?

00:27:37
And, you know, I I don't give away a lot in my practice, but, like, I will help people who

00:27:44
need it.

00:27:44
Right?

00:27:44
I mean, I'm never gonna turn away somebody.

00:27:46
Yeah.

00:27:47
Like, I don't like, if somebody doesn't undergo a a treatment plan with me.

00:27:51
It's because they chose not to.

00:27:53
Mhmm.

00:27:53
It's not because I said, hey.

00:27:54
You can't afford this, or they can't afford this.

00:27:56
It's because they chose not to.

00:27:57
Something even if they said it was the money, they just didn't want to.

00:28:00
They didn't want it or it it they couldn't justify it for themselves.

00:28:04
Right?

00:28:04
Yeah.

00:28:04
But, like, that's never been an issue that the somebody didn't get better.

00:28:08
You know what I mean?

00:28:09
Yeah.

00:28:09
And that's just, like, on my heart, how I felt like people need to be treated.

00:28:13
You know what I mean?

00:28:14
That's how I'd wanna be treated.

00:28:15
That's how to we need to treat everyone.

00:28:17
Right?

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It's like Good.

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How you doing, man?

00:28:19
Yeah.

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I love it.

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You're changing lives.

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I don't know.

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That's that was like an impromptu episode, but that was freaking.

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Those deep man is good stuff.

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Yeah.

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Yeah.

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I love it.

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I think we need to thumbnail that, like, the the power, positive energy or something.

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I don't know if that was Yeah.

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But that is truly living beyond limits.

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That's truly living with full fuel is like having that, the intention and the narrative

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of, like, let's go get shit done.

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But, like, it's through a giving mentality.

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It's playing that givers game.

00:28:47
Yeah.

00:28:47
You know?

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Yeah.

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And you, you know, we talk a lot about fitness and nutrition and the physical health and stuff

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like that, but, like, man, that takes that takes backseat to being spiritually, mentally

00:28:56
healthy.

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Right?

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Like, because that drives everything.

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Dude, if you're,

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like, if that's not there, man, you will never you'll never achieve what you wanna achieve.

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You'll never get those goals, right, because your your brains out, your your subconscious is

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always gonna be the threshold to what you can achieve.

00:29:11
Uh-huh.

00:29:11
Right.

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And if that's at a low level, that's at a negative pessimistic, just, downtrodden place.

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You're you're that's that's your your bar.

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Right?

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Like, that's as far as you'll go.

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So

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The power and the subconscious mind Amen.

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Internally positive.

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Dude, live life.

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Full field.

00:29:27
Full field?

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Let me arm limits, baby.